Sorry for the delay between blogs but I thought I was going to have time to blog again and continue my thoughts (Hmmm..mother of two....Ummm not a chance). Well here I am back on a computer and believe it or not I have no kids with me right now. Artie took the kids to a near by park to burn up energy. (For all those who are parents...I am sure you understand the meaning of that). So I have the time and the right mind to blog some more about what I was trying to say on my last blog. Problem: I can't seem to remember my though process when I was doing that. Oh well. Let me just start from scratch.
Relationships...Ahh yes...now I am getting it..I believe I was starting to talk about the important things that I wanted to establish in my life and that matter in the future. I learned a while ago that relationships are definitely something that needs to be worked on on a daily basis. Unfortunately we never have time to do that. But when that thought comes to mind we tend to go through our contact list on our cell phone and start calling people we haven't talked to in a while. You may get a voicemail or you may get a person. I used to be (before kids) the type of person to "reach out"..as my mother says, to people. Then I got hurt. People were not "reaching out" to me like I thought they should. Then life happened to me and I realized that the only relationships that take most of your time is your inner circle that you have created.
My goal is to be able to regain relationships back with people that I had and continue relationships that I do have because it is very important to have a distant support system when you need it and also why would God create family if that wasn't the case. We often have too big of families that we just can't keep up or then there are family members that we have never met. I know I am rambling but...oh well...
I challenge you to do the same. Maybe your life will turn out a bit differently if you have different relationships in your life. You never know where the wind will blow...as the saying goes. You may find yourself in a position where you are alone in life and you need someone to talk to.
My neighbors don't have any family. They were the only children in their family and then after that their parents were only children. So there really isn't very much family. Isn't that sad? I just thank God for family. Even though we go through crap and drama and issues...and so on and so forth..I think if that wasn't the case our lives would be very dull....
-Peace
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