The Hendy World

Little League 2011

2011-06-04T11:38:00.000-07:00

Carmela!!

2011-04-13T19:42:00.001-07:00

We have finally made the decision to get a new dog now that our kids are older and my mother was ok with it. (Was never a dog lover). She is a two year old yellow lab. Here she is our newest addition Carmela!!!

Crazy8

2011-03-27T14:39:00.000-07:00

Just discovered the store. It is a kids clothing store with the nicest looking clothes I have ever seen for a decent price. Check it out!!

Instagram...my new favorite app!!!

2011-03-26T14:25:00.001-07:00

I know this may not be new to everyone but I discovered a new app that changes your photos and has to ability to age them. Instagram is it!!

Here are some of the pics!!

Got to love technology!! Enjoy!!

New Blog Design

2011-03-26T14:23:00.000-07:00

Yes I was bored and so I starting playing the designing templates on Blogger. Not bad!! Now if I could just be more disciplined to actually blog!! LOL

Happy New Years from the Hendersons!!!

2010-12-31T15:50:00.000-08:00

Hoping that this new year brings you peace, love and happiness in our Lord Jesus Christ!!

My 10 yr wedding anniversary cruise!!!

2010-08-30T16:57:00.000-07:00

On October 10, Artie and I will be embarking on our very first cruise to celebrate 10 years of marriage. This has been in the works for the past two years leading up to this. We have invited all of our family and of course with the economy the way it is we didn't get a great response. However, we did get a couple to go with us, which I am very excited about, my cousin Wanda and her husband, Mike.

Wanda and I grew up together until I moved to upstate NY. Although we have been through a lot threw the years we have always managed to keep in touch, which brings us to this occasion. She did all the planning for this cruise and I am so eternally grateful since I had and have no clue in regards to cruises. Thank you Wanda!!!

We will be leaving the port in Miami and traveling to the Grand Caymans, Cozumel, Isla Roatan and Belize. I am looking forward to spending much needed alone time with my husband and having a great time and reacquaint myself with my cousin and her husband. I truly feel blessed to be able to go on this trip and that the Lord has provided to be able to do this.

Frontier Town - Ocean City, Maryland 2010

2010-08-08T18:29:00.000-07:00

Artie and I decided to take a trip out to scout some campgrounds in Ocean City, Maryland. We found a couple and stayed at Frontier town. We had a great time and met up with my sister and her family.

Friendship verse that struck me!!

2010-07-12T20:08:00.000-07:00

Many will say they are loyal friends, but who can find one who is truly reliable? Prov 20:6

Makes you think!?!?!?

The end of Donovan's tball season!!!

2010-06-20T14:25:00.000-07:00

I can't believe Donovan has finished preschool and now Tball. Another milestone in his life that we get to experience.

Donovan a preschool graduate!!

2010-06-11T13:56:00.000-07:00

We have celebrated another milestone in Donovan's life....PRESCHOOL!! He is officially a kindergartener. I can't believe it!! My first born is going into Kindergarten in Sept.

Congradulations!!!

Opening Day!! Play Ball!!

2010-04-24T11:58:00.001-07:00

GO COUGARS!!!

2010-04-22T17:35:00.000-07:00

And so it begins....tball for my first born, Donovan. We have talked about this moment since we found out he was a boy!!! Artie was so excited to get Donovan ready for tball this year. We went out the the sports store Play it Again Sports and got Donvovan his bat bag, balls, and batting helmet. He's got like three gloves that were given to him and a bat that he inherited from his older cousin, Caleb. He has been psyched to start tball and actually carry his bag.

Here are a few pics to give you and idea....

Hendygurl Book Club

2010-04-17T10:56:00.000-07:00

In the last two months or so I have gotten back to reading and let me tell you oh how I missed it so. I have found the time to do so and when my kids are running around playing I can still read. (not everyone can tune noise out). Well for this blog I have decided to highly recommend books. If you want to see what I have read so far on the far upper right hand of the blog is my list.
This book was absolutely wonderful to read. If you want to read about friendships and the hardships that they go through...this one is it!!! I am a fan of this author as well. Right now I am reading another one that she has written called "Between Sisters".

Our Disney Trip 2010

2010-04-16T14:48:00.000-07:00

I know it has been a couple of months but I wanted to post this on my blog since this was a memorable time in our family lives. My children were blessed to be able to go to Disney and see Mickey Mouse and other characters. I am so thankful to God that He allows these opportunities being that some people aren't able to go because of finances. I am blessed everyday even if my bank account tell me that I am not well off. Knowing that I have made the sacrifices for my children to be able to see things makes Artie and I feel great as parents. It is one thing to have the finances freely available to be able to do whatever you want but is another to sacrifice something just to be able to see a smile on your child's face.

Luke 9:25
What good is it for a man to gain the whole world, and yet lose or forfeit his very self?

My baby girl is offically a preschooler...

2009-09-09T09:31:00.001-07:00

It's been a while....man I am not good at this blogging thing...

2009-07-09T17:01:00.000-07:00

Well I have totally drifted from blogging because I just soooo busy. When I remember to do it I am exhausted and don't feel like dealing with the computer since I have been on it all day at work. Anyways, a lot of has happened but nothing to wow your curious minds about except that my boy is now 4 years old. We celebrated his birthday yesterday and he had a great time.

I just thought I would post this pic since it is a great pic that I took today of my kids. They were willing to take it and I love it.
These kids are my life....and nothing else matters in this world.....

When cyberspace becomes your life...

2009-05-15T09:21:00.000-07:00

I really wanted to do this blog not just for myself but for other particular people that have made being on the computer more of a priority than taking care of business. I am the biggest culprit when it comes to checking my myspace, facebook and other things. But I had a major reality check the other day when my son, Donovan said "Mom don't turn on the computer, I want you to hold me". Well needless to say I was off that thing and held him. But it gave me a reality check as to this day an age. There are a lot of people that spend countless hours on the computer and just let life happen around them. I know people that as soon as they get a chance they have their laptops on and surf, post and blog while their children are running around. Is there a complete need to be on the computer while your children are around? NO!!! There is nothing pertinent or happening on the computer that you can't get done after you have spend your quality time with your family and that does also include your spouse. My husband doesn't use the computer at all and when I get on he is always telling me "Oh I see, you have time for your Mycrack but you can't just sit here and spend time with me?".

I really think that people need to use the computer in moderation and not just for your family sake but for yours only because you are going to be missing out on life. It's good to communicate with people through the Internet and stuff but how bout doing it the old fashion way...pick up the phone. You may be able to have and keep deeper meaningful relationships that way. Life shouldn't be THAT busy that you can't just pick up the phone or stay off the computer.

I have made it a policy in my own life that I won't get on the computer until my kids are sound asleep and if my husband is not busy watching his own shows. Therefore I am available for my family at all times. ....

Camping fever!!!

2009-05-13T18:31:00.000-07:00

OMG!! I am so excited to go camping this year. Not only do I get to celebrate my daughter's birthday on our first camping trip but it is going to be a long weekend. I have come to realize that as a family of four our vacations are going to be very limited and cheap and camping is the way to do it in this day and age. Don't get me wrong I would love to go to the beaches in Florida or explore another state but with a limited income its not happening. And besides Artie and I have decided that from now on until my kids are like middle school age we will be doing family trips only. Reason being is that when we decided to have kids we realized that our lives were not going to be the same as it used to be. Artie and I can't come and go as we pleased anymore and we really dont feel the need to leave our kids for long periods of time. Not to say that Artie and I won't go away for a few days but a week would be a little much for my kids now. Plus there is no need. But that is my opinion.

Well I can't wait to go away for a few days. Pics coming soon...

Not sure what theme to do Ava's party with!

2009-05-13T14:42:00.001-07:00

Any suggestions??? She likes "Girls Rock" and Tinkerbell (but that was done on her 1st b-day). I was thinking of doing a summer theme but she is in the beginning of it and I think it would require heat weather wise and I am afraid it wont be that hot!!! Uh what a dilemna!!! Anyways, if I was going to do a summer theme, Artie and I were thinking of making her a flip flop cake.

It actually is quite simple to make. Artie wants to venture into something more challenging like a fondat butterfly cake. Seriously Artie!!!

We shall see how this is going to pan out...and I will post pics when the time comes~!!

My lil girl, Ava Camille

2009-05-13T08:16:00.000-07:00

I wanted to dedicate this blog to my lil girl who is turning 3 in 10 days. I cannot believe that time has flown by this fast. I could still remember when I found out that I was pregnant. I was like "OMG, this can't be happening, Donovan is only three months old". Of course Artie said "Yeah baby". I don't really remember the pregnancy since I had a baby to take care of but what I do remember is that I was sooooo excited to find out she was a girl. I figured, I already had the boy (as my father used to call him) and now I am going to have the girl.

Originally her name was going to be Isabella Camille but after a lot of thought and realizing that everbody and their mother were naming there daughters that I had to change it. I was looking online for different names and I came across Ava only because I was reading something about Frank Sinatra. Come to find out he dated Ava Gardner, which by the way was beautiful in her hay day. So I stuck with the name Ava and she truly is an Ava.

Over the years, she has brought us tremendous joy and laughter with her little ways. I sometimes stop and think..."OMG, I have a daughter". I can't wait to see how she will turn out as a teenager and a young adult. As my grandparents always taught me the verse of scripture: "Train a child in the way he should go, and when he is old he will not turn from it."[Proverbs 22:6]. I strongly believe if you put enough effort into your children in the ways of God (not your theologies) then you will reap the benefits and blessings that God will have for you. SHE IS DEFINITELY AVALICIOUS!!!

Happy Birthday Ava!!! Mommy and Daddy love you with everything in us. We are very proud of the little lady you are starting to become. Remember to love your God with all your heart, mind, soul and body and you will find favor in Him.

Sometimes I wonder....

2009-05-12T14:57:00.000-07:00

why do I even bother trying to be nice...people always thing there is a motive behind it all.

My mother's day gift!!

2009-05-12T14:54:00.001-07:00

Aren't they beautiful!!! I love them so...God has blessed me with my own precious family that I will cherish.

Closure

2009-04-02T19:27:00.000-07:00

Wow I never thought I would have it but I do...finally!!!

Long lost sister has been found

2009-04-01T04:51:00.000-07:00

In order for you to truly understand what I am about to say I am going to give the history behind it all. My biological father (Antonio Rodriguez) married three times and in the first marriage he had Providencia Rodriguez, the second was Rebecca and Barbara Rodriguez and the third was me. The last time I saw my oldest sister was in 1983 when she came to visit our father for the first time in a long time. I was 5 and she was 16. I don't really remember much about the visit but I do remember seeing her. That was the last time I saw her. Over the years I have been trying to look for her and I had heard stories that she lived in TX, NY or Puerto Rico and that she went by the name Providencia Santiago or Rodriguez. Problem was that I thought the may be under Providence (the english version) rather than Providencia. Anyways to make this long drawn out story short, I went on my myspace the other day and just happened to put her name in to search and low and behold this picture pops up. Well needless to say that I was freaking out and I went to my photo album to find pics of her that I had from her 1983 visit. It looked like her but I wasnt too sure. So I sent her a msg through myspace and she never got back to me for three days.

Well yesterday and went and checked my msg and it ended up being her. She left her phone number and I immediately called her and wow was that the most amazing feeling in the world. She welcomed me with open arms and was so excited to have finally found me. We talked for a good hour and we just didnt want to get off the phone.

We are planning to reunite at some point in the near future and I can't wait. I will post pics when the time arrives.

My blog has a new look!!

2009-03-28T10:03:00.000-07:00

I found out how to personalize my blog and I am so excited...now it doesnt have a black background theme to it.

If you would like to change yours up here is the link
http://www.thecutestblogontheblock.com/

Turbo Jam!!

2009-03-25T13:37:00.001-07:00

Well after being on Isagenix for about 6 weeks I figured I needed to incorporate a workout to start tightening while I loose. So I went to my work out dvd archive and found my turbo jam. I love this workout. I have 2 dvds but within the dvds there are 4 different workouts for concentrations. Right now I do my 20 min cardio since that is all I have time to get in right now but during my cleanse days I focus on like abs or sculpting. I am past the pain so I am not really sore anymore. I can't wait to see what my body is going to look like in the summer after all this hard work.

Our trip to the Big Apple!!!

2009-03-21T09:07:00.000-07:00

This is me at a 20lb loss!!

2009-03-15T12:38:00.000-07:00

This is before Isagenix:

This is after 20lbs in 25 days:

Graciela Mia!!!

2009-03-14T13:00:00.001-07:00

She is a cutie!!!

I love my sister, Tricia

2009-03-13T06:47:00.001-07:00

Today I woke with the urge not to work. Yes I know...we all get that urge..but today I really didn't want to go in and like my job. I got the kids ready with Artie to go to school and babysitter so I can actually rest. My stomach has been feeling queasy for the past two days with a little headache to go with it. Donovan of course wanted to stay home with me but I bribed him by telling him that when I went to pick him up from school today that I was going to take him to the mall. So he went.

As I was laying down on my bed, my cell phone rang and it was my lil sister, Tricia. She has been very concerned over me for the last few days and I really appreciated her compassionate heart (I know where she gets it from, Dad). In my last blog I realized what has been bothering me and I told her to read it. But we got into a good conversation and I have come to realize that we are both in the same boat emotionally and spiritually. I can honestly say that when she tells me something that is bothering her or going on that I know exactly how she feels. That is something you don't find a lot even in siblings, since they tend to have their own agendas. But I have found a common bond with her that has made me feel comfortable and be able to talk with her freely without feeling judged cause she knows exactly what I am talking about.

I can't wait to be able to hang out and just be "little" sisters again like when we were growing up. We always seem to go to that place when we get together and I love that aspect about our relationship. Even if our kids are running around causing havoc we just take the time to act like sisters growing up in our family home. I am really excited to be able to make plans to go down to Miami and visit my other sister with Tricia and just let our hair down and spend quality time with each other. We haven't been together like that in a long time.

I'm an aunt to my 9th niece!!!

2009-03-12T16:01:00.000-07:00

I am so proud to announce the birth of my 9th niece Graciela Mia to the proud parents of Melyssa and Adam weighing in at 7lbs 2oz and 19 inch long. I am kind of bummed that I wasnt able to keep up with my promise that I was going to be there but Melyssa does understand. Hopefully I can get out there in the next few weeks to see the bundle of joy and help my sister out as well since she had a c-section. It was really an emotionally day for me and I kind of broke down talking to my youngest sister today. She called it getting my "friend" soon which I totally agree but after talking with her I kind of figured out what was wrong. My dad wasnt here to see this moment and I cried for Melyssa. It was like bittersweet. All I could think about was the fact that my children as well as my youngest sister got to meet our dad and Graciela won't. After having time to ponder on it I realize that we should all count our blessings and thank God for the family that is with us now. In saying that I am glad that my mom is coming home soon. I have really missed her presence as well. Can't imagine right now what I would do without her.

15lbs gone in 18 days

2009-03-06T04:30:00.001-08:00

Amazingly enough its true. Artie has lost a total of 22 lbs in 18 days as well. Pic to come soon...

Mami come home already!!

2009-03-02T18:28:00.000-08:00

Okay my mother has been gone for a month in California and I think I have had enough...now my son's preschool knows about it because Donovan has told them that his Wela has left and may not come back...pretty bad....

11 lbs gone in 11 days..

2009-02-27T08:59:00.000-08:00

Yep you read it right...Isagenix is taking the lbs off very quickly and to date I have lost 32.5 inches off my body as well....Artie lost 15lbs & 18 inch off in 11 days as well. Still reconsidering joining the isagenix team....

5lbs & 18.5 inches gone!!

2009-02-22T12:01:00.000-08:00

Yes in 4 days of this program I managed to loose that and still going. I am sorry I didn't post it right away I was just busy with everything else. But I was so excited and shocked at the same time. This stuff actually works. I have a lot more energy and feel very much accomplished by what I am doing. I get to measure and weigh myself every thurs. so I will be posting those results when then arrive. Artie lost 7 lbs and 14 inches as well. He is struggling a little bit on this program but of course he wasn't doing it correctly. (typical) But now that he has been through this a week he will be sure to get it right now. I believe that by the summer I will be a different person. Can say for sure how small I will be but I am praying within the single digits in size. If you want to learn more about this program go to this web site http://isagenix.com and learn more about it. Hey you can't go wrong with living healthier and feeling better.,..

Isagenix Day 3 & 4 - Cleanse days

2009-02-19T09:18:00.000-08:00

Cleanse days at first you may think you wont be able to make it because you no first hand that you are just going to be drinking all day but they havent been bad at all....I havent felt hunger pain yet. I dont even desire to eat which is really odd.

So basically what happens is in the morn when I get up and get at em I take a shower and before I leave to work I take my shot of Ionix Supreme and then when I get to work I take my 4oz of Cleanse. An hour and a half a snack and another in another hour and half after that. By then lunch comes around and you take another swig of your Cleanse and you are doing the snack thing again till you get home and the take two swigs (5 & 8pm) of your Cleanse and end with a snack at 930pm and all that while drinking water ALL day!! I have been able to get down 80 oz of water a day!! Pretty impressive!!! Just think I am in the bathroom that much but not as bad on my cleanse day for some reason.

I must say though this morn I woke up kind of feeling "weird" so to speak like I was going to get sick but I just took a swig of my Ionix Supreme and it brought me back to where I needed to be. All I can tell you is that I can not wait till tomorrow morning for that delicious shake...ahhhh chocolate mousse!!! Anyways, for those who are reading this and are interested in trying out this program hit me up...for someone like me that LOVES food and can each just about anything, I am able to do this program...oh how could I forget Artie is doing this with me and he is worse than I am in the food craving department. He is doing well on the program.

tata for now

My Isagenix Experience Day 2

2009-02-17T09:27:00.000-08:00

One down...many more to go!!! Last night I did alright after my delicious shake but I was up till 1245 with a ton of energy.

This morning got up and got all my stuff prepared to do this at work. Drank my Ionic Supreme before I left and then when I got to work made my shake with the Hamilton Beach baby mixer that I found downstairs in my mom's room. Worked out great. Started off the day with a headache but it's totally understandable considering my body is going through some major withdrawals. Had my snacks and drank 32 oz of water before lunch. I peed my brains out but its all good. Now I just finished my lunch shake since I decided it was best to enjoy a meal for dinner. I am not famished or feel deprived at this point. So far so good. This will get better and easier as I progress. I can't wait to see what the results of all this is going to be.

My Isagenix Experience Day 1

2009-02-16T12:13:00.000-08:00

Well today since to be like any ordinary day. I have the day off for President's Day and I got up at about 730 am to start my regiment. My shake to start was great and very filling. Artie liked his as well. An hour and a half later I am supposed to eat 2 almonds but didnt bc I just didnt have any (forgot to get those) but I wasnt even hungry. After Iming my sister in law (Becca)she reminded me that I was supposed to take the Ionic Supreme. OOPs..down the hatch that went. Ugh...that was gross...but it is a shot of vitamins that is supposed to boost your systerm. Still drinking tons of water and going to bathroom like crazy. Since I didnt have an almond to much on I decided to try out my wafers. Not bad. Lunch came around and I made a huge salad with carrots & cucumbers and cooked up turkey burger that I chopped in there. I made my own dressing with olive oil and balsamic vinegar and ate it all up. As I was eating I was IMing my sister in law and she reminded me that I had to have a starch with this meal so I said what do you eat starchy with a salad and she says she usually eats a piece of bread. So I gave Artie and I a piece of bread to finish off this meal. Not to bad. Right about 230ish I decided to try out my IsaDelights. It reminded me of the pure chocolate bars that my grandmother would have in her pantry to make real hot chocolate with. I also gave Artie a chocolate wafer to suck on. Mind you he hates chocolate. So he endured it. Now I am trying to figure out how this is going to fit into my ever so hectic life. My only problem with this is that it is soooo regimented that I feel like I am going to forget some vitamin or drink or something. But the good thing about this program is that you have mentors (Becca & Rachel) to coach you through this process. Now I am anxiously (sarcasm) awaiting my dinner (shake) and seeing what tomorrow is going to bring and also the fact that I have to set up my meals for the rest of the week. Well tata for now....happy cleansing!!!

Tea anyone???

2009-02-10T17:55:00.000-08:00

Darah and I coming out of our tea party!!

Jonathan's surprise!!! DISNEYLAND

2009-02-07T17:33:00.000-08:00

This is a video of Jonathan's reaction to being at Disneyland. We covered his eyes and ears until we actually got into the gates and walked him right in the middle of it all....here it is

http://vids.myspace.com/index.cfm?fuseaction=vids.individual&videoid=51921249

Getting ready!!

2009-01-23T04:20:00.000-08:00

Well per request I am writing another blog but I really have a lot to say right now. There are a lot of things that are happening in my life right now it's awesome how God just takes care of those who love him.

First I need to start with my job situation. I am currently working in a different department and that is because I was detailed for 90 days and they were in need of help so I volunteered. Well little did I know that this was going to be my saving grace. Before the new year, my old dept had a meeting and we were told that there is a possibility that the billing dept will be moved to a different location and we would all have to get a new job in two years. So of course everybody is freaking out with the economy the way its going. In the meantime, the detailed position that I had was being posted for a job opportunity. So I went ahead and I applied. Of course i was going to get it since I had been doing the job for two months and was good at it. Well this week I found out that the billing dept is moving to Lebanon, PA and that the workers here would eventually be absorbed into the VA Hosp locally. But that is nice way of saying that are getting laid off. At the same time I found out that I was offered the position. The Lord watched over me big time.

Second..I am ready to embark on a mission with health. The only thing I am going to say right now is that I am going to be trying something different and hopefully it will change other peoples lives as well...

Third...I am going to California for a 25th wedding anniversary that I was the flower girl for. Yes...and the couple has no idea we (Artie, Mom, JP and I) are going. LOVE IT!!! Will post pics for those....

God is good.....all the time....

My snowbabies

2009-01-03T09:12:00.000-08:00

Google Analytics

2009-01-01T18:18:00.000-08:00

My brother in-law, Noah just made me aware today of this program, Google Analytics. This program breaks it down for you as to who is visiting your sites and where they are from and much much more. It was pretty cool to see from his that lots of people visit my site and go to his. So I guess I have been a resource for him as well. What I want to know is that there is a certain individual or individuals that live on in San Antonio, TX that read our blogs like it is crack. I would really love to know who you are. I find it curious to know who knows or is interested in reading about my life out there...since I dont know anyone out there or that I know of. If you are out there and read this just send me a comment....I would love to solve this mystery. Until then keep reading....

Ava is the new ROCKSTAR!!!!

2008-12-26T12:40:00.001-08:00

Here is Ava playing with her new set of drums. She is a natural.

Surprise visit to Donovan's preschool Christmas party!!!

2008-12-23T13:39:00.000-08:00

Donovan never expected to see the whole Henderson clan to show up to his little Christmas party!!! But it was nice and he was very happy to see all of us.

Winter donuts on Point View Drive!!

2008-12-21T13:47:00.000-08:00

Here is Jonathan taking Artie's Bronco for a ride!!!

Happy Thanksgiving!!

2008-11-27T16:51:00.000-08:00

Just wanted you guys to see what a delicious turkey and a blowout football game (Colts got slapped) can do to a bunch of men.

It's been a while!!!

2008-11-16T16:53:00.000-08:00

Yeah it's been a while since I last blogged but I have just had bloggers block. (Does that exist?) Anyways, a lot has occurred with me since my last blog. Donovan gets a cast and I am in a different department at my job for 90 days. Needless to say everything else is well.

Hopefully in the next three months I stay in the department I am currently in. I like it and it keeps me busy and the people there are more laid back than the billing dept. Please keep me in prayer that this works out the way I would like it too. Since I havent been able to get a new job hopefully a lateral move will make the catch for me.

Our first four legged child, Porter

2008-10-22T11:45:00.000-07:00

My poor Porter is not doing well. He has an enlarged spleen and the dr. say he is inoperable because his blood count is too low and he won't make it....so of course we have to put him down. This is really tough since he was our first four legged child. He will be truly missed.....

First school trip for Donovan

2008-10-18T20:49:00.001-07:00

Expectations

2008-10-14T13:12:00.000-07:00

I am sitting here relaxing in my room and a thought just came to mind about my relationships and their expectations of me. I have always had this problem that I go over and beyond for people that are in my life regardless of my past with them but now I have come to realize that nobody really does that anymore because I guess people are too busy, don't care or they just plain out don't consider me a friend. I know I am not the perfect friend but I tend to be on the better end of a friend than not. When I mean friend I am kind of generalizing it, it also means relative as well. I guess the one true earthly friend that I have right now is my husband. I would say my mother but she doesn't really fall into this category because she is a mom and she will always be there for me no matter what. Yes I am truly blessed. But anyways, getting back to what I was saying, my husband really has been the only person that I have been able to trust with my whole heart. He has never lied to me and treated me wrong. Even when we were friends, he respected me when I was dating other people and when I needed advice he was always there. I can call on him at anytime and he always has encouraging words. Some people don't agree with him or may not even know him but to be honest it doesn't matter what anyone thinks...he is my husband.

But what I am trying to get at is that the expectations of other people in my life are a little crazy. I also have had expectations for other people as well but they have always let me down. My husband has never let me down....ever.

I guess then to finish out this blog I would have to say I am a lucky girl for having this man in my life. My bestfriend and lover is my husband, Artie. Happy 8th Anniversary baby!!!

Great Sunday

2008-10-12T14:56:00.000-07:00

Well today we were off to church as usual but with a little twist. My father in law and my uncle came to church today. Everybody in church was surprised to see them but happy as well. The Lord has done a miraculous work in both of these men. What a great surprise testimony today. Gene actual joined me in worship playing his keyboard as well. It felt pretty good that he was able to do that. I am very grateful to God that He was faithful to watch over them.

Today was a relaxing day after bbqing some food for the Henderson family. It was pretty awesome to see all the Henderson men in the room fellowship and doing what the love to do best...FOOTBALL!!

Right now Donovan and Artie are outside carving a pumpkin and the girls are inside. Ava is not feeling to hot and she has just been lounging most of the day. It's all good though. It's nice to just relax at home and spend time with the kids without spending money. Keeping it simple seems more practical nowadays.

Oh by the way, keep me in prayer, I have an interview on Friday for a different but better paying job in the government. It is a upward mobility position in the Human Resources department where I work. Lord open the windows of heaven on this one if this is your will......

Quote for the day!!

2008-10-10T05:41:00.000-07:00

I was reading http://buddycremeans.com and I borrowed this quote which I thought was very essential for me since I love music and I listened to it even when I am working.

"A private relationship of worshiping God is the greatest essential element of spiritual fitness."

Hump Day!!

2008-10-01T06:56:00.000-07:00

Today seems to be uneventful at the present time...but you never know around here. Anyways, this month is going to be very busy as I have mentioned in previous blogs but busy is good. It's also starting to get cooler around here as well as winter is starting to approach so of course leaves are changing and looking pretty. I can't wait to start wearing boots and sweaters. That is the great thing about living up in the Northeast. You have a variety of clothes to choose from since you are in all types of weather. Well I have bloggers block so I will ttyl.

Update on Uncle Gene Part 2

2008-09-30T11:47:00.000-07:00

I am happy to say that I when I went to visit Uncle Gene yesterday he greeted me with a smile. He was sitting up and eating his fruit and drinking cranberry juice. He couldn't really talk much because his throat was pretty sore from having a ventilator but other than that he was good. As of today, I was told that he walked around the ICU without assistance and asked for his cell and laptop. That is the good ole Gene for ya!!! He never could live without those two things. I thank you all for your fervent prayers. Thank you Lord for putting your mighty hand on my Uncle and making him well again. You are an awesome God!!!

Update on Uncle Gene

2008-09-29T07:24:00.000-07:00

His sons arrived to find Uncle Gene awake and coherent. He knew who they were. He is having an IVC filter put in him to stop anymore clotting from traveling. PRAISE THE LORD!!

Prayer request

2008-09-29T06:26:00.000-07:00

For those who read my blog, I have a request. Please keep my precious Uncle Gene in prayer.

After a long and grueling road trip from California to NY he collapsed in his driveway and was found to have a pulmonary embolism. He is being treated now locally and the dr's are trying to figure out how to treat this as he hit his head pretty hard on the pavement which caused some bleeding in his brain. He is has no dibilitating issues at the present time and right now he is heavily sedated as to not agitate anything else. But when off sedation he tries to take the ventilator off that assists him in his breathing. We are praying that God would take his healing hand and just dissintergrate the clot and heal his small brain hemmorage and that he walks out testifying. Please also pray for his three children that are going through there own trials. They lost there mother 4 years ago from brain cancer that was compromised by her breast cancer. So they surely are afraid to lose another parent. Thank the Lord that this happened here where there is family support.

Thank you for continual prayer. Will keep you posted...

I am absolutely stoked!!

2008-09-26T17:29:00.000-07:00

After a long and tiresome trip I think my husband will be arriving sometime in the wee hours of Sat. morn. It has been very hard on me but more on the kids. They have been asking about him since he left. They really miss him and of course so do I. I will be glad when this is all said and done though because then we can go back to normality.

Just thought that I would write my feelings down since I have some down time and the kids are asleep (hopefully). Anyways, I also have a busy month up a head. I have a wedding on the 4th, Gracie's 7 b-day on the 11th, my anniversary getaway on the 12th and 13th, Donovan's field trip to Goold Orchard on the 14th and on the 20th I am supposed to meet my Goga girls for a day out in NYC. My goodness. Well busy is good. Keeps your mind off of things...tata for now.

TGIF!!!

2008-09-26T07:09:00.000-07:00

I have been so waiting for today for so many reasons but most importantly because my husband should be home today or early Sat. morning. This trip has been very trying on all of us since everything happens at the same time. But I thank God that He has brought us through another trial.

I haven't been able to get a lot done as far as working on myself (exercising). But when everything slows down a bit I am going to get back in the groove. My father in law going into surgery has been a big wake up call for me. I realize that it is very important to take care of your body and watch what is going in your mouth. Everyone knows what they put in their mouth and so I am trying to really analyze what goes in. In doing that I realize the damage that it is causing to my body. So nutritional awareness is very important. Like I heard one of the coaches on The Biggest Loser say, "When shopping at the supermarket, stay around the perimeter of the store". The food that is in the middle is the process, high fat, high salt, high sugar foods.

Happy Healthy eating!!!

Abuelito, Dad, Papi & Pops

2008-09-25T05:44:00.000-07:00

The title of this blog may be a little strange but these are the names of all four father's that I was blessed to have in my life.

Abuelito

From the moment I was born, this man only had eyes for me. To him I was also known as "Tanita". This is the man that raised me and took care of me. He took care of me when no one was able to. My parents were both working and my grandmother had not retired yet. I was born with one leg shorter than the other and I had to go through a battery of test and operations and he felt the need to be by my side the whole time. I think he felt sorry for me since I was just a little thing. But in the years growing up with him, he was the one I always called for and looked up to. I spent many years with him in Puerto Rico at his home. He was the one to get me my first bike and teach me how to ride. This man also was very protective of me. He would not allow any boys to come near me and he made sure he knew where I was if I was playing outside and who I was with. As the years went by I felt that I could go to him if I wanted to be babied and taken care of. He took care of me emotionally. He would counsel me and tell me at times why I shouldnt be doing things and how I should do the right thing. But there came a point where he was getting older and his health was declining. Before he passed away, he had a tremendous experience with my other father, Pops that I will never forget. After a church service, my grandfather was introduced to my Art Henderson (my future father-in-law). When they greeted each other, they shook hands and then hugged. At that moment, I swear it was like sparks were flying and my grandfather went into a holy ghost hoe down. He just kept speaking in tongues and squeezing Art like I had never seen. It almost seem like they were getting electrocuted. After it was all said and done they wiped the tears and moved on. I never really understood what happened that day until after he died. I will explain later on Pops story what that really meant. To me my abuelito will be my first earthly father. He shielded and protected me like one and I will forever be greatful.

Dad

This man is my biological father. There really isnt much I can say and that is because he died when I was 10 years old exactly. He died on my birthday June 14, 1988. I can't fault him for having the life that he had because he wasnt exactly raised in a christian home with a set of parents. He was raised by his stepmother and basically fended for himself. His mother didnt want him because she was an alcoholic and his father died when he was 11 years old. With all that he became an alcoholic and just drank himself to death...literally. I don't hate on him at all and I also don't think I missed out on anything because of him. What I do wish is that he was around so I could know him as an adult and he could meet the man of my dreams, Artie and my beautiful children, Donovan and Ava and ask him a lot of questions. I miss him because I do remember him. I remember he was very funny and a great musician. Everybody that had the opportunity to meet him says that he had a great personality and he was well liked by all. He was wicked smart too. He just didnt have a fair chance in life. I love him and miss him and I am not ashamed of him at all. He was my Dad.

Papi

This is the man that took me in and included me in his own family and made my mother happy and that I will be forever greatful. Yes there were hard times blending families and attitudes but I can tell you this my mother misses than man everyday and would have another 17 years of that if she could have him back again. This man also helped me develop my God givin talents as a worship leader by allowing me to be the worship leader at his church. I learned and witness all the heartaches that come with being in the ministry. I saw blessings and curses being brought on people for their actions towards him, which is really scary so watch what you say about a man called by God. He wasnt one to show his affection very well to me but I knew that he cared very deeply for me even if we didnt see eye to eye. This man will truly be missed because at the end of his life he was starting to enjoy his family after being in ministry for so many years. I am so grateful that he was a part of my life. I love and miss him terribly and wish he was here to see my kids grow. But Donovan will always remember his "Welo" on the tractor. He made such a great impact in our community as well.

Pops

He is actually my father in law but since I was 12, he has been in my life. He has now taken the place of all of the above. Going back to the encounter that he had with my grandfather, the better explanation for that is the passing of the baton. What I mean by that is that where my grandfather was leaving off Pops was going to take over. Not to say that Papi (stepfather) wasn't taking on that role, but I just felt that since he had his own children at home to worry about I kind of leaned towards Pops for advice and spiritual guidance. There is a lot to be said about this one since I still have him in my life. For starters, I can call on him whenever I need help of some sort. If you ever need to talk, just plan on being there for a while but he always has scripture to back him up. Unfortunately there are people that don't agree with his philosphies and beliefs or even the way he approaches people but it always seem to be right in the end. His personality is more like a get up in your grill type approach to figure out what is really going on. Like Jesus did when he was doing the work of ministry on the earth, he would talk to the persons issues not the question that was asked. It's kind of freaky when he does it but he most definitely gets the root of the problem. He isnt afraid to tell you the truth and that is what attracted me to him. Don't get me wrong he aint perfect by any stretch and he does have his faults...duh he is human, but we won't discuss those cause the good definetly outways the bad. Part of the reason why he is so impressionable is because of his passion for doing the work of the ministry and helping people see what God can do in their lives. He helps bring the potential out of people and helps them recognize it. He lives his life COMPLETELY by faith and that speaks volumes.

To sum up this blog, I have been blessed to have 4 father figures in my life. Not many people can say that and what is really sad people that have had one father don't appreciate them. Parents aren't perfect but they definitely should be appreciated.

Doing better!!

2008-09-22T11:07:00.000-07:00

As the day is progressing I am doing better. It's about 2pm and I have an hour and half of work left. After work I am going to visit with my dad before his surgery tomorrow then go home and work out and spend the remainder of the night with my kids. Tomorrow I will be at the hospital with my mother in law and both my sister in laws while my dad is in surgery.

Things are slow at work so I have some time to think about some stuff and get reorganized. The next coming weeks are going to be a little trying but I will overcome with God's help. Thanks for the words of encouragement Di!! Was very much appreciated.

Right now!!!

2008-09-22T05:35:00.000-07:00

Right now I am very emotionally stretched and frustrated on so many levels it's not even funny. I've got my father in-law in the hospital getting ready for his bypass surgery tomorrow, my husband is in California getting ready to move his family back to NY and I just don't understand some people and why they do what they do. Any words of encouragement out there?

My sweetheart left for Cali

2008-09-19T15:51:00.000-07:00

Well it's about 10 min to 7 and I am here with the kids alone without my husband. He should be getting to Chicago Midway soon. He left about an hour ago to Cali to help move his Uncle Gene and cousins to NY and of course I miss him terribly. I think these things getting harder the longer you are married. When I got home from dropping him off he text me from Albany Airport that he missed me already. Now I have to bear the sleepless nights because he is not next to me and trying to do my daily routines with the kids for a week. Can't complain though the military wifes don't get to see their husbands for months or even a year at a time and have to take care of the family all on their own. I have to give it to them. They are most definitely troopers.

Artie, I can't wait to see you in about a week. I love you and have a safe trip back home.

Bypass update!

2008-09-19T05:49:00.000-07:00

Well the bypass is scheduled for Tuesday, Sept. 30. I went to visit Dad at the hospital yesterday and he was in very good spirits and had a very positive outlook. He is more concerned who is going to cover for him while he is in recovery, which is understandable. The doctor told him that this surgery should turn out well considering he is a younger than the average person that gets these done and his only issue is his heart, which is a hereditary thing. The doctor told him he is going to feel like he is young with a new heart. I call him the Tin Man. LOL. Anyways, my worries are long gone and I believe God is going to let him testify about this when this is all said and done.

I would like to thank all my friends and family for praying for him and my family at this time. I love you all.

PS - Vote McCain/Palin!!!!

More family drama!!

2008-09-18T11:34:00.000-07:00

I can't seem to shake this cloud of family sickness/death off of me and it's driving me crazy. My father in law went to the hospital yesterday with chest pains and now this morning after a catherization it was found that he has complete blockage in his arteries and he needs a triple possibly quadruple bypass surgery. The news is a little overwhelming to say the least but I am still trusting in God that His will will be done in this situation. The way I see it the Lord could have taken him the first time this happened to him a year ago. But he didn't. Now I am trying to figure out the reason for all this. To top it off, Artie is leaving tomorrow to California to move his uncle Gene and family back to NY. So Artie gets to hop on a plane knowing that his father is ailing. Lord have mercy!!! His surgery is not scheduled for a week so that he can empty his body of medications that he was previously on. So Artie should be back before he goes under. Artie's main concern is that after surgery that his father won't be the same person personality wise. I guess we are going to have to see how this pans out.

I will keep you posted as to what is going on as the days come nearer to the surgery. I gotta admit I am a little "numb" inside but there is nothing else I can do but pray that everything works out. Keep him in prayer...thanks...

Donovan is officially a preschooler

2008-09-09T06:08:00.000-07:00

I can't believe it. My little man is going to school. He could not wait to get to school yesterday. Of course I was a mess. I was actually crying when I took this pic. When we got to the school he walked in to his classroom and his teacher greeted him and showed him his little closet space with his name on it. Then she asked him if he had a lunch and he began to pull it out to show her. As soon as he saw the kids he ran and started to interact with them. He was so overwhelmed with all the stuff and kids that he forgot that I even existed. I had to tell Donovan that I wanted a kiss and he finally came over to me very quickly and said goodbye. I was a mess.

When I went to pick him up he had plenty of stories and he can't wait to go back on Wednesday. He even has homework already. He has to bring something in for show and tell. How exciting.

A day at the lake!!

2008-08-25T20:26:00.001-07:00

Yesterday we all took a trip to the North Greenbush Town Park and spend the day by the lake swimming and catching some rays before we said goodbye to summer. As you can see Ava is having a blast.

Candid shot

2008-08-23T04:32:00.001-07:00

Hailey, Donovan & Ava

Another potential preschool!!

2008-08-14T06:46:00.000-07:00

Well as I sat at work yesterday wondering if the first preschool that I went to was going to call me I decided to look around some more if I could find a Plan B..just in case. Well thanks to Google I found another preschool right in East Greenbush where my kids pediatrician's office used to be. I made a call and spoke with the director. Would you believe this place is astronomically cheaper. It's called Story Place preschool. I have an appt to check it out today. So wish me luck.

Continuation of preschool tour!!

2008-08-10T14:08:00.000-07:00

Well when I arrived at the preschool, you had to buzz someone so they could open the door. (very comforting..needless to say). I was greeted by a very nice lady by the name of Kirsten, and we went up a flight of stairs to the babies and toddler section. OMG..that was the cutest thing I had ever seen. Seeing a nursery full of babies just brought back crazy memories. Almost made me want another one but I fought the temptation. Then we went up to the next floor which was the 3 year old floor. It was so cute. They had their own lockers with their names on it and there was a binder on the top of each one. These binders are for record keeping on what the child has done for the week and what they have learned and how they are doing. Then we actually went to one of the 3 year old classes and man did it bring back memories of when I was in preschool. I actually remember..crazy huh!! The kids were all looking and me and saying "Who is she" and of course the tour guide told them she is a mommy checking out our preschool for her son. She told me they have story time and a section to play with blocks and they even have a computer, which was kind of cool. The next floor was for four old to kindergarten. It was pretty much the same set up as well. She also showed me the sanctuary where they would be having chapel and also the gym, where they would be playing as well.

Overall, I thought it was a great facility considering it was just down the road from my job. I can't wait to see how Donovan's reaction is going to be the first day he is there. Of course the next posting about his preschool is going to be with pics so you can enjoy the view from where I am standing.

Preschool dayz

2008-08-08T04:34:00.000-07:00

Well today I am going to meet with one of the teachers of Donovan's potential preschool. This preschool is actually down the road from my job so I could go visit him during my lunch hour. It is very exciting for me but at the same time bitter sweet. My boy is growing up. Will keep you posted as to what I found out. Wish me luck!!

Faucet has been shut off....finally

2008-07-25T05:53:00.000-07:00

Well I just wanted to let you know that it has finally stopped raining over here. I swear I thought were going to have to build an ark with all the rain that came in. The positive side of it all is that the humidity is gone and the pollen is down....

I guess we have to thank God for the rain...

Love my kids...

2008-07-25T05:48:00.000-07:00

My kids being cute....

Ma boy is potty trained!!!

2008-07-21T08:11:00.000-07:00

Well I wanted to post this one until it was actually official. Donovan has been going on the potty for both for one week by himself. I am so excited (can you believe). He is a big boy now!!! It's funny but he will tell you that he has to go and if he is outside he will drop his pants and go on a bush. The cutest things is all you see is this little butt....I am so proud of him. I think what helped also is a book Becca gave me called "Once upon a potty" with a little boy. Donovan was able to identify with the little boy and got the gist of it.

The good part about it is is that Ava is following behind and saying I have to go potty and when I sit her on the pot she goes. She just has to get the pooping down. In about 6 months I will have both of them off diapers. $$$$$$ in my pocket...

Posting 4th of July pics..

2008-07-17T07:06:00.000-07:00

Must be a new thing to blog!!

2008-07-15T16:24:00.000-07:00

Well it looks I have influence some people to start blogging. Pretty neat huh!! Well I am glad I can share the world of expression to a few. Just remember to read often and comment...

Happy Blogging!!!!

Hot and humid weekend!!

2008-07-14T07:08:00.000-07:00

Well this weekend was Donovan's b-day party and we bought him a trampoline. We had all the immediate family over and so Donovan was able to play with his cousins. We had the little pool and an Elmo's sprinkler. We had a great feast as well from steak, ribs, veggies and corn all on the bbq. YUM. I was very thankful for all those who were able to come out on such a hot day! But the one who took the hit was the birthday boy. By the end of the day he was complaining of a headache and by the end of the night he was getting sick and throwing up. So needless to say I was up all night with him but by the morning like a trooper he was ready to go thank God.

Sunday service was great. I had Uncle Gene on the keyboard and we sang two new but old songs and the spirit of God was greatly felt. At the end of the service my mom showed up with her cousins from California, Esther and Miguel. It was nice because there were able to see me in action with my drums and leading worship. She is such a tremendous prayer warrior and you can see God leakin off of her. When she prays it's like fire from heaven and when I got the opportunity to greet her we latched on and hugged and cried and I just felt the greatest comfort spiritually.

Can't wait for these next couple of weeks to go by...we will be back in Lake George camping for a week on Labor Day.

Monday blues

2008-07-07T07:27:00.000-07:00

I can't believe I am back in the office today. I don't want to be here. But I have the day off tomorrow. My baby boy is going to be 3 yrs old tomorrow. I can't believe it. My sister arrives today and I am excited to see her and my nephew Davis.

My weekend was really good. On Sat. after I got the kids down to bed and had Caitlin come spend the night in my camper to watch them, Neissa, Raul, Rachel, Artie and I took a drive to Lake George village to walk around and just have a few moments to ourselves. I got a frozen banana. It was OK. I won't get another one though. Artie and I got to walk on the board walk and sit and look out into the lake and just relax. I cherish those moments because I don't get them very often. We were reminiscing on how we got engaged just a few yards away from where we were sitting and just acting like a bunch of teenagers hugging and kissing. I loved it. I thank God for giving us those few precious moments.

Looking forward to this weekend...more family comin..

Rest and Relaxation

2008-07-05T05:11:00.000-07:00

Currently I am sitting in my camper at about 8:11 am listening to a commerical on my tv in my bedroom and also listening to Artie and Raul discuss some Sports Center stuff and my kids playing while sipping a cup of coffee. This weekend has been nice but trying. Of course what I mean is with two toddlers it can get pretty difficult but this too shall pass. But on the brighter side my kids have gone swimming almost everyday and they both are most definetly not afraid of the water. I have pics and video to prove (will come at a later date since it is still on my camera). They are my water babies. Thank God.

I am also excited because my sister is coming to visit as well as my son's 3rd b-day. It is going to be a busy week needless to say. It's all good though...

Is it the 4th yet?

2008-06-30T16:12:00.000-07:00

OMG!!! I am so anxious to get this week over so I can go away. It has been hectic weekend to start off with. Sat. my A/C decided to kick the bucket with 85 degrees and humidity making it feel like 102 degrees. My kids were just out of control (probably due to the heat). But thank the Lord a friend of the family that used to go to my dad's church and used to help us out with our sound system came by and fixed the problem. The funny part about the whole thing was that it was one of my dad's fixes. If anybody knew my dad they new that anyway for him to save a buck he would fix it himself. Needless to say it ended on a happy note and our A/C is back. Thank God!!!

Then that same day my mother needed to be taken to the ER because she had a pain in her side that she was concerned about and had her bedridden for a couple of days. Well to after all that it was a pulled muscle and all is well. Just was a little tired after all that.

Now I am trying to get dinner ready to get my kids to bed so I can actually clean my camper out for this weekend while Artie is working late to get extra money. Sacrifices that have to be made to have a moment of rest...

Plannng my 10 year anniversary getaway..

2008-06-26T11:12:00.000-07:00

Artie and I decided that for our 10 year anniversary we wanted to go away for a honeymoon that we never had. When we got married we really couldnt afford to go away, so we settle for the Poconos. This time around we are seeking a more tranquil beachy setting were no one can bother us.

We have decided on a Sandals resort in St. Antigua with a Villa with our own pool and privacy...can't wait...I will keep you posted with more when I get more details...

Can't wait to go on vacation for a couple of days.

2008-06-26T11:07:00.000-07:00

Some people are blessed to go away to exotic places and some can afford to get away from it all. I thank God that we have the opportunity to get away for a couple of days. Camping....yeah it's good to be able to let my kids enjoy their childhood while playing outside and swimming and just hanging out with the rest of the family.

If you are one of those who don't usually get away for various reasons, I pray that God would grant you the peace of mind that you need to get away from it all.

Potty training blues

2008-06-26T09:14:00.000-07:00

OMG! I can't deal. I am very frustrated and don't know what else to do.

Just wanted to vent!!!

-Peace

A moment to myself

2008-06-26T03:34:00.000-07:00

It is actually 630 in the morning and I am all by myself. My kids are sleeping still so I have a moment to myself before I have to log in to work.

This week has been pretty good. I have been working from home all this week because my job is relocating and the office space isnt quite ready for us yet. Oh well. At least I get to be home with my kids and enjoy working from home and save on gas.

Well tata for now...I need coffee..

Long awaited continuation..

2008-06-19T15:16:00.000-07:00

Sorry for the delay between blogs but I thought I was going to have time to blog again and continue my thoughts (Hmmm..mother of two....Ummm not a chance). Well here I am back on a computer and believe it or not I have no kids with me right now. Artie took the kids to a near by park to burn up energy. (For all those who are parents...I am sure you understand the meaning of that). So I have the time and the right mind to blog some more about what I was trying to say on my last blog. Problem: I can't seem to remember my though process when I was doing that. Oh well. Let me just start from scratch.

Relationships...Ahh yes...now I am getting it..I believe I was starting to talk about the important things that I wanted to establish in my life and that matter in the future. I learned a while ago that relationships are definitely something that needs to be worked on on a daily basis. Unfortunately we never have time to do that. But when that thought comes to mind we tend to go through our contact list on our cell phone and start calling people we haven't talked to in a while. You may get a voicemail or you may get a person. I used to be (before kids) the type of person to "reach out"..as my mother says, to people. Then I got hurt. People were not "reaching out" to me like I thought they should. Then life happened to me and I realized that the only relationships that take most of your time is your inner circle that you have created.

My goal is to be able to regain relationships back with people that I had and continue relationships that I do have because it is very important to have a distant support system when you need it and also why would God create family if that wasn't the case. We often have too big of families that we just can't keep up or then there are family members that we have never met. I know I am rambling but...oh well...

I challenge you to do the same. Maybe your life will turn out a bit differently if you have different relationships in your life. You never know where the wind will blow...as the saying goes. You may find yourself in a position where you are alone in life and you need someone to talk to.

My neighbors don't have any family. They were the only children in their family and then after that their parents were only children. So there really isn't very much family. Isn't that sad? I just thank God for family. Even though we go through crap and drama and issues...and so on and so forth..I think if that wasn't the case our lives would be very dull....

-Peace

I am officially 30!!!

2008-06-16T11:57:00.000-07:00

Yes I have entered the world of 30ism. I can't believe it. Although there have been people that asked me, "Am I depressed", "Does it bother you"...Honestly, it doesnt even phase me. I thank God every day that I have made it this far. Looking back on my 30 years, I really dont have any regrets. I have a wonderful husband of 8 years this year, who loves me and takes very good care of me (despite what people think, and you know who you are). Two beautiful babies, which I don't know what my life would be like without them. I can't say I have always made the right decisions but I have learned from my mistakes. There are times where I wish I could go back to being a kid and having all the wonderful people that have passed on since then around but of course that isnt possible now....but I will see them later.

As a 30 year old I think what I may want to start considering is my health and my relationships. The God thing I think I have that down (read the last blog). I am talking about people in my life..family...friends. I am not saying that I take people for granted, I think what I am saying is continuing to have relationships with people that want one with me. I don't know if that makes sense but oh well. It's my blog..LOL

I will continue this later on today....

Praise Report....

2008-06-13T11:56:00.000-07:00

What was supposed to be the most depressive week of my life ended up bringing Glory to God. I got some news yesterday that made me literally cry. We have been praying hard and seeking the Lord when it came to our finances and we continued to believe that God was going to do wonders and He has...over and abundantly. For those who can't seem to get a grip on this faith thing, here is a little piece of advice. Let Him take care of it. He can do a better job at it than we can. He will never leave you nor forsake you even if you think otherwise.

But seek first his kingdom and his righteousness, and all these things will be given to you as well. Matthew 6:33

Praise God!!

BTW: I turn 30 tomorrow...

I love my kids!!

2008-06-05T20:41:00.001-07:00

Faith...it's a beautiful thing

2008-06-03T17:25:00.000-07:00

I can honestly say that right now in my life my faith is being tested in the most craziest way. Not to say that this is the only time that that has been the case but this time around I really have put my whole trust in the Lord. (isnt that sad) I know I have been a christian practically all my life but I have never really felt the need to have this kind of faith. I totally relied on the heels of my parents and grandparents to bring me through. But now that most of them are gone (with the exception of my mother) I really learned to do this "christan walk" on my own.

We just finished our Wednesday night study on the book of Revelation. Yeah sounds freaky at first but after having gone through the whole book it doesnt appear freaky anymore. I learned so much about the whole point of being a christian and what we are actually striving for and that God is an unbelievable and mercyful God. God gives people so many opportunities to reign with Him for eternity its unbelievable and to think they are still going to deny Him.

Well right now I am sitting in bed, waiting for Artie to finish putting Donovan to bed so that I can do my devotions, which is something I never really got the hang of either. This must be a crazy revelation to some people but this is just me being honest.

Remember God wont put you through anything that He hasnt prepared you for!!!

Here is my song that has been getting me through...

Going through pics and I came across these...

2008-05-29T11:01:00.000-07:00

My Dad and I in a parade in NYC.

My maternal grandparents in a wedding

My cousin Diane and I. I was 2 and she was 9.

Happy Birthday Ava!!

2008-05-23T19:19:00.001-07:00

Just wanted to say Happy Birthday to my little girl Ava, she turns 2 today. We are actually celebrating her birthday tomorrow will a lot of family and friends. Will post pics soon.

My beautiful family...

2008-05-16T21:16:00.001-07:00

Just wanted to post a pic of my family...took these for my mother's day gift...

enjoy..

Still...

2008-05-14T06:15:00.000-07:00

Ever been told when you were little "stay still"? Well I found a song in my ipod that tells me to stay still but not because I am moving too much but because when I am going through trials and tribulations God is STILL there so be STILL and know that HE is STILL God. Hope you are blessed with the song as I was....

Still

Artist - Hillsong United
Lyrics - Words and Music by Reuben Morgan

Hide me now

Under your wings

Cover me within your mighty hand

When the oceans rise and thunders roar

I will soar with you above the storm

Father you are king over the flood

I will be still and know you are God

Find rest my soul

In Christ alone

Know his power

In quietness and trust

My Lil Ole Diary

2008-04-30T04:41:00.000-07:00

OMG!! I found a diary that had been writing in 97 thru 2000. It was pretty funny to read and knowing that my life has dramatically changed from that time period. Just to see how my emotions and my way of thinking would change rapidly is pretty amazing. I was also sadden because I expressed feelings about certain people that in retrospect if I had the ability to deal with them I wouldnt have said them. Oh well...that is why it is called a diary. I challenge you to find your little ole diary and read it and tell me what you think.

Events coming up:

Ethan's 1st birthday party (Dawn's son)
Ava's 2nd birthday party (Veggie tales)
Memorial Day weekend
My 30th birthday...(what should I do, it falls on Father's Day weekend...any suggestions)

-Tanya

Nice day and great weekend ahead

2008-04-18T11:16:00.000-07:00

It's Friday and I am at work...yeah this blog is going to suck..but wait great news...it is a beautiful day in the neighborhood. I think it is supposed to reach up to 80 today. WOW. Can't wait to go home and take my kids outside to play. But until then I get to look out the window by my desk and enjoy the view of a VA parking lot with a pleasant breeze coming in as I listen to Tabby's ipod (I left mine in my car, which Artie driving). Song on the ipod right now is "The Way I Are" by Timbaland.

This weekend I am headed to Suffern, NY to Dona's house. We are all meeting there to celebrate our 30th birthdays. This is the year the three musketeers turn 30 (Amy, Me and Dona). Can you believe it. The funny part is Amy has no idea that Becosa and Me are going to be there. So it is a nice surprise all around. Will have pics ready on my next blog.

(Prayer: Lord, let this weekend be a time of refreshing for me from my usual daily trials and toils of life. )

It hurts when I swallow..

2008-04-10T08:21:00.000-07:00

Oh man!! After the wedding my kids decided to keep being sick and pass it on to me and Artie. So now it hurts when I swallow. I feel achy and I just want to go to bed. My kids have not been sleeping well as well. They keep Artie and I up all night with their crying. But that is what parenting is all about. One day I look back on these moments and miss them...NOT!!

A little side note on the weight loss thing that I haven't been really good and taking care of...I am down another size. Impressive...being that I have been eating what I wanted for about a month without exercising. So I might as well continue on with the weight loss since my body still wants to.

I miss my mommy!!! She will be home in 13 days...count down begins...

20 years ago....

2008-04-07T07:04:00.000-07:00

This year marks 20 years that my father passed away, June 14, 1988. I can't believe it has been that long. I have been contemplated as to what to do, in that I mean, do I go to the gravesight? I personally dont believe in visiting a grave only because I was always taught they are not there anyways. But being that I have never seen the grave I thought that I would pay a visit. (Little closure). I am not one to memorialize someone to the point that they become an idol so this little trip is just so that I can see what this grave looks like. I honestly would like to see my Rodriguez side of the family as well as that brings me more memories rather than just sitting by the grave. So I am planning, not for my birthday week (which is when he past) because it is father's day weekend and also my 30th birthday, something with some of the family to see if we can get together. We shall see.....

I have learned over the years that people have a different way of mourning some that are healthy and some that just drags on for years (unhealthy). In my own personal life, I deal with my mourning before the person even passes away. By this I mean, I take care of business while they are alive. I spend time with them and appreciate them. When they do pass on the mourning process wont take years on end. But for me it takes months. I believe some people mourn longer because they have regrets and guilt, which is sad. That is why I take the approach that I established. I couldnt live with regrets or guilt...

RIP Antonio Rodriguez 1946-1988

Do you choose whom to forgive and whom not?

2008-04-02T04:58:00.000-07:00

That is a very good question. If you know someone who is reluctant to forgive one and not the other, what do you say to that? Please feel free to comment!!!

God doesn't consult your past to create your future!!!

2008-03-30T14:38:00.000-07:00

I brought my camera to youth convention and do you know I didnt take not one picture. I just didn't remember. Oh well. It's one of those things that you had to be there. The music was awesome..Jeff Deyo was unbelievable like usual. The speaker was Jeannie Mayo. The first night I had a hard time understanding her msg but the second night she touched on "Purity". A topic that in a setting like this one always comes up. But this time she took it to a different level. She touched on forgetting your past and moving on. I thought it was very well done.

After that long weekend, I was very tired and just didn't get much sleep. But I am here. Thank God. Now I am preparing the house for the guest that are coming for Melyssa's wedding. Exhausting but well worth it. It is going to be a hectic week and I will be glad when it is over. Another chapter in my life will be over. Then I can move on to bigger and better things. My kids birthdays which will just be coming one after the other.